I know this will peg me as a fanatic, but I'm just not comfortable with presents under a tree. If the whole point is the birth of Jesus, why is there this enormous, fake (in our case), tree that we decorate. To drag religion into it, it's almost a contradiction to pile presents under a tree, when the original gift givers put them under a manger with a baby in it. (Well, that's actually very historically suspect, but it's less suspect than that they put them under some evergreen in the middle of Palestine). Really, it makes sense to my atheist friends, since there isn't a God, then Jesus certainly wasn't his son, and the holidays are the point, not a Christmas. But since we're not atheist it makes more sense for us to put a manger and baby at the center of the season.
So this year, we put out a manger, and left it empty until the 25th and we put presents under it. I know I'm risking coming off as hoity-toity here, so please hear this as a Lockie family experiment. The results I think were positive. Our kids liked it, I was comfortable with it, and it helped us remember that Christmas is when Jesus became a baby and God became a Dad. Anyway, I'm curious about what others think about this? Am I alone here, is it just me that thinks the Christmas tree is an odd tradition, or am I just a religious loony that takes symbols too seriously?
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Umm... yes to both?
I really like the idea of using a manger instead of a tree. It makes a lot more sense, and gives a lot more room to create a feeling of real story and significance to your Christmas traditions, while a tree doesn't offer much more than emotional sentimentality. So, assuming you're not being hoity-toity and pushy about it (which I wouldn't expect) when you talk about it with people, I think it's a very grand experiment indeed! If you keep it up, I hope your kids will see real value in it as they get older and grow into mature believers.
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